An independent reference guide to birthdays and home celebrations. We sell nothing and do not organise parties; check prices and terms of venues and services with them directly.

Reading lists

Reading lists

Reading lists are paths through the guide for a specific situation. Essentials give you the minimum you need to get everything done and miss nothing; in-depth materials are for those who want to understand the rules, etiquette and facts in more detail. Within each list, the order runs from actions to concepts. If your situation is not here, start with the map of sections: there all materials are grouped by topic rather than occasion, and you can find what you need in a minute.

You don't need to read the whole guide before every party. Pick your situation and start with the first item on the list.

— Editor's note

Only published materials from the guide go into reading lists. We do not include advertising, rankings of entertainers, cafes or shops, or links to specific services. If a material on a topic is not ready yet, we do not put a placeholder in its place; we simply keep the list shorter.

A first children's party

For parents hosting a group of children for the first time. The key things here are safety and the questions to ask the guests' parents in advance.

A relative's milestone birthday

When a celebration brings together several generations of a family. It helps to consider older guests' habits and traditions and to prepare a few words of your own.

Celebrating at work

How to congratulate a colleague in a way that suits everyone, and where the law limits gifts.

  • Practical articles

    How to host a birthday party at home in two weeks, plus a catalogue of upcoming articles.

  • Reference

    Dates and traditions, etiquette, safety and curious facts, briefly and with sources.

  • Archive

    All materials by date and topic, plus a note on the domain's former content.

Sources

  • Birthday 365 guide materials

Information is current as of the date it was prepared. Venues, services and sellers change their rules, so check prices, booking and refund terms with them directly, and check legal rules against the current version of the law.